Mothering

I have been reflecting on what it means to be a mother lately. So many people I know don't get along with their moms, some for good reason, others because of petty grievances. How horrible and hurtful it is to resent a mother for her actions or child raising abilities when in all likelihood, she was just doing the best she knew how.
Keith and I are both lucky to have wonderful mothers. I strongly believe that the similar manner in which we were raised has helped us build a more solid relationship with each other AND their example has helped me to be a better mom.
Over the last few weeks, my relationship with Remington has become even more clearly defined. I'm no longer just his food source. He treats me differently than he does other people, even if that means he gets more frustrated with me. He knows who I am, clings to me a certain way, and is always happy to hold me when strangers are around.
The decision to become a stay-at-home mom was an easy one for me. I'm so glad Keith was on board to completely take over bringing home the bacon. While it is the hardest job I've ever had, it is by far the most rewarding. What I'm doing now as a distinct impact on the future, unlike filing paperwork or cashing checks, the mundane work I was doing before. For the first time, I'm my own boss and I love my job, even though I have one of the most demanding clients ever! Can't wait to add more clients!
Happy Mother's Day!